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The Do’s and Don’ts of Gifting Money for a First Home Purchase

Written by
Dean Menzies, Partner, Residential & Commercial Finance
Published on
28 November 2024
Updated on
20 April 2026
Time to read
minutes

More young people are turning to their parents for financial assistance in purchasing their first home, citing the high price of property as their main reason.

The knock-on effect of this has pushed the "Bank of Mum and Dad" into the spotlight as one of the country's biggest informal lenders, helping adult children cover a home deposit when savings fall short. But gifting money for buying a house comes with real legal, financial, and tax consequences that can catch families off guard.

Before you transfer a lump sum to your child or take an amount of money from your parent/s, here's what you need to know, and what you should avoid.

Looking for personalised advice before gifting a deposit? Cutcher & Neale's finance specialists can walk you through every step. Call us on 1800 988 522 or visit here to get in touch.

So, What Is a Gifted Deposit and How Do Gifted Deposits Work?

A gifted deposit is a cash gift given to you by family members that covers the deposit for your new home. But a gifted deposit is not a 'loan' in the traditional sense because it carries no repayment terms and no interest charged.

Because of the loose legal structure around a gifted deposit, lenders will require a gift letter that confirms that the money is a genuine gift and that there is no expectation of repayment.

Most lenders only accept gift money from immediate family members. Always confirm your lender's specific requirements before funds are transferred.

Why Gifted Deposits Matter in Today's Market

Having a large sum for a home deposit directly improves a first home buyer's financial position in three ways:

  1. Lower loan repayments. A bigger home loan deposit reduces the total loan amount, cutting monthly home loan repayments over the life of the loan.
  2. Avoided Lenders Mortgage Insurance (LMI). Borrowers who contribute less than 20% of the property value typically pay Lenders Mortgage Insurance, a premium that can add thousands to the cost of the home loan. A gifted deposit that pushes equity above that threshold eliminates this cost entirely.
  3. Stronger borrowing power. Lenders assess a borrower's financial situation holistically. A larger deposit signals lower risk, which can improve loan approval chances and terms.

For first home buyers in Sydney, Melbourne, or Brisbane, where median property prices remain high, even a partial cash gift can be the difference between entering the market now or waiting years. So, let's take a look at the do's and don'ts when you gift money for buying a house to family members.


The Do's

1) Understand the Tax Implications for Both Parties

Australia does not have a direct gift tax. However, gifting money for a first home purchase can trigger unintended consequences, particularly around taxable income and government benefits.

Interest earned matters. If the gifted funds sit in an interest-bearing account before settlement, the interest earned is considered taxable income for the recipient. This should be declared in their annual tax return.

Capital Gains Tax (CGT) may apply later. If the property appreciates and is sold in the future, CGT could apply depending on their residency status and how the property has been used. This is not a gift tax, but it is a downstream consequence that required careful planning for.

Speak with a Cutcher & Neale tax adviser before transferring funds to understand your full tax position. Contact us here.

2) Protect Your Own Financial Security First

Gifting a large lump sum and helping your children climb the property ladder through family support can be risky. Before committing to anything, ask yourself:

  • Will becoming the bank of mum and dad affect your retirement savings in a material way?
  • Will you need access to these funds within the next five to ten years?
  • Does this affect your own home equity or emergency cash reserves?

Your financial security matters. A gift that compromises your retirement is not a sustainable act of generosity, even if it helps your children buy sooner.

3) Explore Superannuation and Estate Planning Opportunities

In some cases, the timing and structure of a financial gift can be optimised for tax purposes. Contributions to superannuation or early inheritance arrangements may reduce your taxable income or improve your estate planning outcomes, particularly for higher-income earners or those approaching retirement.

This is not a one-size-fits-all situation. A Cutcher & Neale wealth management adviser can model the right approach for your financial situation. Visit our website to learn more.

4) Document Everything Clearly and Early

As previously mentioned, many lenders require a formal gift letter before approving a home loan that includes family support. But documentation protects you and your mum and dad just as much as it protects the lender.

A written record clarifies:

  • Whether the funds are a gift or a loan
  • The amount transferred and when
  • That no repayment is expected

This becomes critical if your child later divorces or separates. Without clear documentation, gifted funds may be treated as part of the shared asset pool in a family property settlement. A gift that was meant to help your child could complicate things significantly in a separation.

The Don'ts

1) Overlook Centrelink and Age Pension Implications

Gifting large sums can directly affect your entitlements to means-tested government benefits. Under current Centrelink rules:

  • If you receive the Age Pension, you may only gift $10,000 per financial year or $30,000 over five consecutive years without affecting your payments
  • Amounts above these thresholds are assessed as a "deprived asset" for up to five years, meaning Centrelink may still count that money as yours even after you've handed it over.

Even if the funds are used immediately to buy a home, cash gifts that exceed these limits can reduce or cancel your pension payments. Always check with a financial adviser before gifting.

Contact Cutcher & Neale's financial planning team to discuss the potential impacts of your gift before you commit. Visit our website to learn more.

2) Co-Sign or Borrow Against Your Own Assets

Some parents go further than a cash gift, offering to co-sign the home loan or use their own home equity as additional security. While this can help for those who doesn't qualify for a loan independently, it puts your own financial position at serious risk.

If your child misses regular home loan repayments or defaults entirely, you become responsible for the debt. You could lose equity in your own home, or face legal action from the lender.

If your child needs additional support beyond a gifted deposit, discuss structured options, such as an interest free loan with formal repayment terms documented in writing.

3) Confuse a Gift With a Loan Or Vice Versa

This is one of the most common sources of family financial disputes. A gift is unconditional. A loan requires repayment under agreed terms. Disputes arise when the nature of the transaction is never explicitly discussed.

If you intend to lend money rather than gift it, the arrangement should be:

  • Documented in a formal loan agreement
  • Clear on the loan amount, the expectation to repay, and whether interest will be charged
  • Registered appropriately if it is secured against property

Leaving this ambiguous doesn't protect anyone. It creates tension, misunderstandings, and potential legal disputes in the event of a family breakdown.

Genuine Savings vs. Gifted Funds

Many lenders require that at least 5% of the property purchase price comes from genuine savings, funds held in the borrower's account for at least three to six months. A gifted deposit may not satisfy this requirement on its own.

This matters because lenders want evidence that the borrower can manage their financial situation independently. A small deposit from genuine savings, combined with a larger gifted deposit, is often the most effective structure.

Talk to a Cutcher & Neale residential finance broker about how to structure your funds before applying. Visit our website to learn more.


Gifting Money for a Home Deposit: A Quick Reference Summary

Consideration

Key Point

Gift letter

Required by most lenders; must confirm no repayment expected

Genuine savings requirement

Lenders typically require 5% from the borrower's own funds

Lenders Mortgage Insurance

Avoided when deposit exceeds 20% of the property value

Age Pension limits

Max $10,000/year or $30,000 over five years without affecting payments

Capital Gains Tax

May apply when the property is eventually sold

Family law risk

Gifted funds may be included in divorce asset pools without documentation

Co-signing risk

Parents may be liable for the full debt if the child defaults

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Will my lender ask where the gifted deposit came from?

Yes. Most lenders will want verification that the cash gift is indeed rightfully yours to spend and has been accessed lawfully. Lenders impose strict requirements to ensure that gifted funds are not a disguised loan.

This includes requesting the donor's bank statements to verify the legitimate source of funds and comply with anti-money laundering laws. Providing these documents upfront avoids delays in your home loan approval.

Can gifting money create tension?

It can. Large financial gifts can create emotional strain or unspoken expectations within families around gratitude, decision-making, or future repayment, even when none were intended.

A miscommunication about whether a transaction was intended to be a gift or loan could cause family disharmony that outlasts the financial arrangement. Being explicit from the outset, and putting it in writing, removes that ambiguity entirely.

What if there's a misunderstanding about whether it was a gift or a loan?

This is one of the most common causes of family financial disputes. If the donor believes they made a loan and the recipient believes they received a gift, the fallout can damage a relationship permanently.

A short written record confirming the intent of the transaction prevents this entirely. When in doubt, document it.

Does using a gift immediately to buy a home protect my Centrelink payments?

No. If cash gifts exceed certain limits, they can impact Centrelink payments for the recipient regardless of how the money is spent.

Centrelink assesses the gift at the time it is given, not how it is used. Even if the funds are transferred directly toward a home purchase, amounts above the $10,000 annual or $30,000 five-year threshold are still treated as a deprived asset for up to five years.

What are the legal and financial differences between a gift and a loan for a home purchase?

Gifts are generally tax-free, but it's important they are clearly documented to avoid confusion with loans. If your parents provide a private loan, it is expected that you will repay the money under agreed terms.

If a parent gives a monetary gift to a child to purchase a house, and that child later divorces, the house may form part of the asset pool in a family property settlement.

How Cutcher & Neale Can Help

Helping your child buy their first home is one of the most meaningful things a parent can do. But without proper planning, a generous gesture can create financial strain, legal risk, or unintended tax consequences for your whole family.

Cutcher & Neale's team of accountants, financial planners, and residential finance specialists work together to protect both parties. We help you:

  • Structure the gift to minimise tax exposure
  • Understand your Centrelink obligations
  • Document the arrangement correctly for lenders and family law purposes
  • Review the impact on your retirement and estate planning

Ready to take the next step? Contact us today and build a better financial journey.

This article is general in nature and does not constitute financial, legal, or tax advice. Cutcher & Neale recommends seeking personalised professional advice before making any decisions about gifting money for a property purchase.

About The Author
Dean Menzies is a Partner at Cutcher & Neale with more than 25 years of experience in financial services. Known for his candid and knowledgeable approach, he has built the firm’s Residential and Commercial Finance division into a core service offering, helping clients navigate property lending and investment decisions with clarity and confidence.

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